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Change, are we ready for it, are we ready to accept the change? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and I'm sorry that I haven't been posting in a long time. So.. why did I start with change? Well it is because in every new year, every new month, week and day, something can and will change.Whether it's you or your family or friends, change is natural, you can't stop it, but you can choose whether or not to accept it. 2018 honestly wasn't a great year for me. I mean it started out amazing and then a lot of things fell apart which nobody really took notice of, but I almost lost myself, all things which I'm good at, I became not that great in it. Some of my friends and I almost drifted apart. Then slowly I started to get back, but not to how it was when things were great, but to better state than the previous state. There are still things that I have get back to, but I did get some good things out of this year. 2018 was a wake up call for me. I guess it wasn't that gr...

Some people may not seem the smartest, but when it comes to advice, they can inspire you. Now these people are rare to find. But I'm glad I found a friend like this. People often misunderstands them. To me they are like a mystery. Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be talking about my friend Johnathan. Now Johnathan is 3 years older to me. And the way we became friends was kind of interesting. Long story short, I mistook him as a bully and gave his name to the school and then he got punished and he asked who did it, but I was afraid he would do something to me if I did confess that it was me. Eventually he found out it was me, but he calmly explained that I totally misunderstood his words. Then one day I roasted him and he was impressed, so people asked me to do a diss track on him and I did. There after I considered us to be friends. What I learned from him is that  you need to know what to speak, when and where to speak. And I think that it is very important to all o...

People where masks in front of others, but they can't where it forever, the truth will come out with a few lies. Some people turn out to be imposters. Many people have talked some smack behind a person's back, but why? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be talking about smack talkers. Why them? Well because I got tired of seeing and hearing people talk behind a person's back. But, I'm also guilty of this😞, some of you might be saying, 'Ashley you're such a Hypocrite, and talking bad about smack talkers behind their backs makes you more of a smack talker as well, so what's the use of doing this if you're one too.' ..... Well.. you're right, but I'm trying my best not too. But I have seen so many friends talk smack about each other, some of my friends even talk smack about me. I mean if you're not present with your friends (not true friends) they start talking smack about you on what they dislike about you and your previous mist...

Do you all get that feeling that after some incidents you and your friend are kind of distant? You try to act normal and lock up your feelings and act like everything is alright.How do you handle these things? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and I'm sorry I don't post that often, I have been so caught up with school that I didn't have any idea on what to post. Then I got inspired by a friend. Back to the topic, I love hanging out with my friends and I would love to share my opinions and perspective on things, but you just get that feeling that what if they don't feel the same or there might be an argument because you had one already and then years passed by, but you're still feeling the distance. I have a friend which I talked about previously, Maya, yeah when she transferred to another school, we stayed in touch, but she was so.. busy in school work, but I still do feel comfortable talking to her. You know me and some of my friends suddenly became distant. I feel wei...

Hey guys, It's Ashley, and I'm sorry. I'm sorry for not posting like for a month, I'm sorry that I was careless. It was and is my fault. I've just been stressed about some stuff and it was totally stupid of me to stop posting. Well, why apologize now when I could have apologized a while back, well...I was scared, I mean I didn't know what to say or what to post, I had so many doubts. But I let you down and I'm sorry. It feels good to get this off my chest. So....I've made some few changes, we'll not be going according to themes,and you guys can comment down below to some topics you want me to cover, and maybe I can write about it. And I really want to thank you for putting up with me. See you next time.                For now....            Goodbye.

It's pretty hard to be yourself, for some people it is easy. It is good to be honest and let your true colors shine. Who are they? Most importantly, who are you? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be talking about my friend, Mitchell. She is a person who is just herself, she is not afraid to be herself, she doesn't need someone to tell her what she is, you either accept her the way she is or not at all. It's great, to be yourself, not hide who you are, know yourself, describe yourself. Mitchell was and is a great friend, she's .....herself, and it makes me jealous sometimes, that she is so bold, confident, smart, tall, beautiful. But, we need to not compare ourselves with others, we are unique and special in our own way, keep bettering yourself. But.. what if you lose your identity, then what? Well I've always asked myself, who am I? What is my identity? I lost myself because I wore too  much of masks, as in I was a different person to different people. I...

Sometimes other people's fears are humor to us. But it is also our job as friends to help them get over it. You may think their insane, but in the end, we all have fears. Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be introducing you to my friend Madison.She really cheers me up with her over acting. But she is super kind and innocent compared to the rest of my friends. Her fears are pretty funny, literally, I went shopping with my friends and sister in the mall with adult's super vision of course. We went to this arcade sort of place in the mall, so there was this ride for two, so my sister and my other friend went first, then it was me and Madison next. When we went in the ride, it made us feel like we're in this rollercoaster. So on the screen they were showing we were in a dungeon and fire was shown on the screen and she started screaming, literally people from outside was looking in, my friend and sister were laughing, and I said her to shut up, but through out the ri...

Kindness is not a person, it is a character of a person. It is hard to be kind to everyone. For some people, it is easy, that's one of their gifts in life. But in the end, it isn't that hard, it is a choice that you can choose. Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be talking about my friend who is so kind, meet Sarah, my friend before I even started school. She's my sister's age. Sadly, I hardly see her, she's been sent to boarding school. Sarah is like a sister I never had, she's always been kind to me and even to others. She doesn't like to fight, but she tries to work things out with others. It is always great to forgive than take revenge, if you take revenge then you are no better than the other person. And forgive them completely, otherwise it's not called forgiveness. Some people have a hard time forgiving others, but it's a choice, either you forgive or don't forgive, be kind or be rude, be happy or sad. Life is about the choice...

Smart people may be decent, but some develop a silly personality that make us laugh. Who are serious but use their sense of humour. Who are these people? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be talking about my classmate Tim. He is someone a teacher will never expect to be cracking jokes or very silly. He irritates me and makes me laugh, I'm glad I got to know him. He has this stupid sense of humour that cheers my classmates up. In the end of the academic year speech, many people talked about his silly humour. When I talk to him about a joke he made a minute ago that we were laughing at, out of no where suddenly, he's super serious. I mean, we were best buds a minute ago, now you turn into Mr. Seriouspants, hello give me a sign or atleast have a warning. I embarrassed myself making fun of something. But, it's good to have a balance of both. It's good to be a kid in the inside and a mature person in the outside. But you need a balance of both. Because when you ...

There are many good teachers in the world, some are like a 2nd mother or are like a friend. If you are a teacher or want to be one... Which one would you prefer? But what if you choose to be both, and that is what one of my teachers chose to be. Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I'll be talking about my teacher Ms. Anjana. My teacher is super cool, she cracks jokes sometimes, laughs with us, does her job well. And she teaches the subject which I've heard many people find difficulty in... That's right people.. MATH! And she teaches great for a math teacher. Ms. Anjana..You might be reading this so I just wanted to say that never stop encouraging students, pushing them, believing in them, laughing with them and teaching them not only the subject, but also to interact with one another. This advice also goes to all the teachers out there, never leave a child with broken wings, help them to fly or make others to help them fly. Get to know them and interact with them, caus...

Some people are extremely friendly, and super talented, we all have that one friend who cannot be described with one word. Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and..I'm back !!! My exams just got over, I know some of you were dying for my next post. But back to the topic. I love these sort of friends. And today I want to introduce you to christmas tree, why that name?Well...Long story short, when I was acting in the play, for practice, we needed a Christmas tree.... So the person in charge of the play told him to be the Christmas tree as he was so.. tall. By the way he is 7 years older to me. And from then he was the Christmas tree, but for the rehearsal we of course had a real christmas tree. But till date I call him Christmas tree and he doesn't mind. Anyways, he's a great actor, rapper, dancer, and good at many other things that I will need a full page to write. He's a great guy over all. All the kids love him so much. He's like a celebrity. Well these types of friends ...

We have met might have some people who act tough and  strong and rude sometimes, but inside they are a better person. We all wear masks...But what is our true identity? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be telling you about a person that I have met that acts tough and strong. And I want to apologize for not posting on Saturday because I wasn't feeling well 😷. Back to the topic.. Gabe isn't that bad, he tries to hide his identity. Gabe is actually open and nice but chooses to bully, that's why he always gets the bullying role in the play.He's a cool guy, famous for being mischievous, but funny too. He acts like a boss, I mean he literally has his friends to be  bodyguards and pays them. He bought a property which is probably like four floor tiles  on your house. But..Why do we wear masks, is it to just fit in, or..Is it to act cool? Well I agree it is hard to be yourself, but if you wear all these masks you'll loose your real identity. And is not good,...

Sarcasm, it can be a sense of humour or an insult. It could be very misunderstood. But the real question is that how do we take sarcasm, do we take it as an insult or..A sense of humour. Hi, I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be telling you about my friend, Alex. Alex is very understanding, but she is more sarcastic than understanding.....Alex, I know you are reading this so if you feel bad suck it up like you always do. Alex is a type of friend who is mature,well sort of, but she would call herself immaturely mature..😐 moving on. She is a good friend to me, she gives time to me and Eloise, yeah she is like the person who is on no one's side when there is a fight, instead she'll be watching us fight and eating popcorn and if it is serious she will try to stop the fight and continue eating. She is super sarcastic.... I swear Eloise is so gullible, she believes most whatever she says....I guess Alex is slightly better than sarcasm than me😔. I like to take sarcasm mor...

Have you seen a ball of energy, except for the sun or in movies. Well.....It could be positive or negative energy, but the real question is that how does it effect you life, is it a good or bad impact? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be telling you about my friend, Eloise. She is a real ball of energy. She and I weren't that close friends at 1st and 2nd grade, but in 5th grade we became the best of friends. She says to me and our other friend that she feels lonely in her home place and left out sometimes, but I know at least once in our lives we have felt that way, well..I have. She has a lot of interesting stories to tell us everyday and most of them involves her bad luck. But is she a positive impact on my life,....So far yes, yes she is. She inspires me...She is a good friend who wants attention. We both share the same interests..like singing, dancing, sports, etc. She can get very weird and can get into trouble, but she isn't that bad once you get to know her....

I never knew that drama could also be a person. Drama is a little flavour to our life.It wil either break you or make you stronger. Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be telling you about my friend, Danielle, which you all know isn't her real name. People like Danielle is hard to deal with. They won't take 'no' for an answer, they want things to go their way. Well...They may not be one of the healthiest friend choice, but a little flavour once in a while is good. But I am thankful that she is in my life, cause she made me a better friend, but..We constantly hurt each other's feelings, but don't tell each other about this. Danielle, you may be reading this, so I don't mean to offend you and I'm sorry if I was a bad friend to you. To all my viewers, if you have a friend like this, be open and tell them how you feel, no matter how hard it may be, but they need to stop dragging you down. Choose your friends carefully, because the wrong choice can...

A laugh can bring good thoughts right? A little dose of laughter will help right? A lot of memories we cherish in that one laugh. Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be telling you about my friend, I won't give her real name so let's keep it as Grace. Grace made me laugh, cry, mean and kind. She was a class clown in 1st and 2nd grade and she was more naughtier than the boys, no offense boys but it's true. We were in the same class from kindergarten to 2nd grade.  We had fights, so I would switch groups and then she would take me back. Drama, there was a lot of drama between us. But she would often make the class laugh, dancing on the benches, writing love letters to boys in our class. We are family friends, but at 4th grade she shifted to Australia, but we're still in touch. Man I miss her, now the guy she wrote letters to makes me laugh, taking her place, and I will soon talk about him. Grace was very talkative and a class clown. She was like a mean girl...

True friends are the light when your path is dark. Most good things last for a short time, so don't take it for granted, but make the most of it, and if you're lucky, then the 'forever' in best friends forever will make sense. Hey I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be talking about my friend, I won't say her real name so let's keep it as Maya. Welcome to the first Theme Introduction about my friends and people I met Now back to the topic.... My friend Maya is by far the most truthful and approachable friend I have ever had. Up till now she was and is a true friend to me. She was first my sister's friend so... We weren't that close, but after RSN News, which is a totally different topic, brought us close. So she is 4 years older than me, which is good I mean she can give me a lot of advice and sometimes I give her advice. Why in my introduction of this post did I write 'good things last for a short time', well...Maya is leaving ...

If you ever did read my first blog you may be confused.....But I can explain... While my brother was creating my blog, he asked me,"Hey what's this blog about?" I replied," my experience with friendship  I guess?" my bro typed ' my experience with friendship' and said now that's my blog's name and I'm like that's a weird name, but I was a newbie....And I still am. My first blog I wrote was '' Damn! This is my first blog' but I thought I deleted it...But I didn't.....I made another one which is my first post that I didn't delete. When I posted it I realised that the previous blog, it wasn't posted so I posted that too. Then after posting it I realised that both of them didn't make sense...So then I deleted that 'Damn! This is my first blog' and kept the other one. I wanted to change the name of my blog but I thought that I couldn't but then I realised that there was a setting like that. So ...

Hi, for all who don't know me, I'm Ra...Wait my fake name is Ashley Svishnu, why that last name, read my first blog. Now the explanation for the story is confusing. I know, who teaches you how to drown properly! It all started when I was 5 years old. I was afraid of water like crazy. At te age of 6 I got over the fear. I just learnt how to swim in the big pool. At seven, I learnt to swim from a bigger distance, I wanted to impress my bro so I asked him to watch. He was busy talking to my sister and her friends. I swam and I realised that my feet is not kicking the water, but instead it was underwater. I started to drown, calling my bro, but he's still talking, I on the other hand is screaming from the top of my lungs. A woman from my apartment saved me. And  he was still talking. I swam to the other side and I started to cry. He saw me and then he came to know I was drowned.  He said that he thought I was singing. WTH... My voice ain't that bad. He came up to me and...

As you know by the name of my blog, I will be telling my experience of friendship. I don't want to tell my real name so let's keep it as Ashley Svishnu.....That last name because it makes me laugh. I also won't giving anyone's real name for specific reasons. My blog is going to be about friendship. Why friendship? Well honestly I don't know, but one day I'll have good reason for that. By the way ..... Thanks bro for allowing me to use your account. And in this blog I will be sharing my feelings and experience with friendship. For all the stories I share, all the people in the story might be reading this so I don't mean to offend you or anyone at the matter of fact. Some of you might think it's cyber bullying, but no ..As I said I don't want to offend anyone. Be ready for the confessions about my feelings about you. I hope this blog might not end friendships of mine or yours. I hope this is benefiting to you all and you like it. I might post ran...