Smack talkers 😒

People where masks in front of others, but they can't where it forever, the truth will come out with a few lies. Some people turn out to be imposters. Many people have talked some smack behind a person's back, but why? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and today I will be talking about smack talkers. Why them? Well because I got tired of seeing and hearing people talk behind a person's back.

But, I'm also guilty of this😞, some of you might be saying, 'Ashley you're such a Hypocrite, and talking bad about smack talkers behind their backs makes you more of a smack talker as well, so what's the use of doing this if you're one too.' ..... Well.. you're right, but I'm trying my best not too. But I have seen so many friends talk smack about each other, some of my friends even talk smack about me. I mean if you're not present with your friends (not true friends) they start talking smack about you on what they dislike about you and your previous mistakes. What are the reasons that they do it? Some of them are:-

• Jealousy or insecurity: They might not feel that great about themselves when their with you, so they just don't want to admit it. But to all who are insecure or jealous, just remember you have talent too, just find it, but try not to boast about it.                                                                                        
• Previous arguments: In my previous post I talked about distant friends, so maybe they said they forgave you, but to others they still talk about it and drag your reputation low, that's actually not forgiveness. I mean they ( the victim) can't change the past, but only the future. But if it was something really serious, then just talk things out with your friend.          
• Trust: This is one of the major issues between friends. They can't trust you or be honest about somethings. So they become quite distant with you. But try to solve it out with no arguments, drama and don't be too sensitive.

Now comes one of my favorites, when friends talk smack about you, there will always be this friend who will be listening to both the sides of the argument and tells it to one of the friends and they share their opinion, cause the don't want to say it to the other person's face. This friend I call the messenger bird. And since I'm a girl, I know how girls smack talk works, it gets emotional, so we need a messenger bird friend in these.

So to all the smack talkers, messenger birds, and people whom smack being talked about, try to be real and honest, even though it may seem hard, remember you all are talented and special, try not to put down each other and be true to others. Try to correct them the right way, don't twist the truth with lies, but be a friend. Avoid this as much as possible. Cause none of us are perfect, but remember to try our best to be good.

             For now....

                  Goodbye.