Distant friendship😔😟

Do you all get that feeling that after some incidents you and your friend are kind of distant? You try to act normal and lock up your feelings and act like everything is alright.How do you handle these things? Hi I'm Ashley Svishnu and I'm sorry I don't post that often, I have been so caught up with school that I didn't have any idea on what to post. Then I got inspired by a friend.

Back to the topic, I love hanging out with my friends and I would love to share my opinions and perspective on things, but you just get that feeling that what if they don't feel the same or there might be an argument because you had one already and then years passed by, but you're still feeling the distance. I have a friend which I talked about previously, Maya, yeah when she transferred to another school, we stayed in touch, but she was so.. busy in school work, but I still do feel comfortable talking to her. You know me and some of my friends suddenly became distant. I feel weird sharing stuff with them cause I'm afraid that they might  judge me. I still don't know what made this distant feeling happen.

But the hardest part is to hide these feelings and lock it up inside. I mean sometimes you just want to burst out of tears.
But then... How can you be good friends, but not be able to tell them your problems or how can you call them your true friends if they judge you so much. But it is also your fault too, you didn't do anything to better the friendship, you just left it like that, if you actually did better it, then you wouldn't have been locking up your feelings, and yes, you might have to take a risk on what you're gonna say, cause it might end the relationship, but atleast deep down, they will be happy that you trusted them with it. Please don't make the same mistake I did, I didn't do anything to better my friendship status, but I will still try to better it.

By the way leave a comment down below if this was relatable, and those who know me personally, please don't address me by my real name, but by Ashley. But in all seriousness, try to better your friendship status to all your distant friends, and I will also try.
               For now...
                      Goodbye.

Comments

  1. Anonymous29 November 2018 at 08:30

    Dear Ashley,
    I am so overwhelmed by reading your blogs. I miss you guys a lot. Hope school is good.
    Mitchelle.

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